What I understand based on my interaction with several close female friends is that most women don’t date men they want. They date men they subconsciously think they deserve. So many women say they want a nice, kind hearted guy and then end up friendzoning that same type of guy saying he is too nice 😁. Then they date the same old macho, narcissistic, mean type of guy and wonder why are they not getting the right kind of guy. What are your views on that?